Can a Leopard Change Its Spots?
I don’t believe in stagnation. I like change, but especially the kind of change that allows us to grow and move forward. I think the
I don’t believe in stagnation. I like change, but especially the kind of change that allows us to grow and move forward. I think the
In the over-exaggerated world of movies and television, helping someone with addiction can look really heroic and ever-absorbing. I recall scenes of people setting up
I was honored today to be included in a panel discussion regarding the eight (8) proposed Wisconsin Assembly Bills impacting adoption, foster care, and termination
One of the bleakest aspects of early recovery was the feeling of guilt and shame over the damage I’d done to my loved ones. Once
I’ve been immersed in the world of recovery for many years and I’ve come to the realization that this is my life passion. In addition,
In the beginning it has never occurred to me that my substance use was akin to checking out of life. I thought I was just
I offer the following as part of National Adoption Month 2019. I’ve written about secrets before, but it’s an important topic to remind myself and
I try to keep my writing as upbeat as I can, but I also cannot dismiss the reality of someone living in active substance use
Sometimes with addiction, you need all the help you can get. Actually, you always need all the help you can get – especially in early
Many thanks to Paige Strickland, author of Akin to the Truth: A Memoir of Adoption and Identity, for her review of Parallel Universes. The premise
One of the hardest aspects of addiction is that it doesn’t just affect the person having it. I’ve talked about families of people with substance
For me, one of the aspects of healthy recovery is learning about who I am and staying rigorously honest with myself about my reality. This
One of the biggest misconceptions about addiction is that it’s some kind of a moral failing or a weakness and that the person with the
Summer has ended. And with it the frenzy of celebrating in the sun, the garden parties, the patios, the BBQs, the long, lazy days on
You’re here because you found out about me through the grapevine, maybe saw something on social media, maybe you’ve got my book. If you’ve been
Sometimes when I think about my own recovery, I am amused at how demanding it can get. Or how demanding it used to be –
I’m sorry, darling, but this is just not working for me anymore. It’s not you, it’s me. Or, perhaps I should say, it’s not me,
For many people in recovery, there comes a time when it all becomes so… boring. Yup. The meetings, the retreats, the group sessions, the therapy,