Relinquishee, Adoptee, MPE
Author, Speaker.

There Are Many Ways to Help

In the over-exaggerated world of movies and television, helping someone with addiction can look really heroic and ever-absorbing. I recall scenes of people setting up

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On Checking Out

In the beginning it has never occurred to me that my substance use was akin to checking out of life. I thought I was just

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Deadly Secrets

I offer the following as part of National Adoption Month 2019. I’ve written about secrets before, but it’s an important topic to remind myself and

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Death and Addiction

I try to keep my writing as upbeat as I can, but I also cannot dismiss the reality of someone living in active substance use

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Consider Coaching

Sometimes with addiction, you need all the help you can get. Actually, you always need all the help you can get – especially in early

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Paige Strickland Review

Many thanks to Paige Strickland, author of Akin to the Truth: A Memoir of Adoption and Identity, for her review of Parallel Universes. The premise

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What About the Kids?

One of the hardest aspects of addiction is that it doesn’t just affect the person having it. I’ve talked about families of people with substance

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Gratitude Season

Summer has ended. And with it the frenzy of celebrating in the sun, the garden parties, the patios, the BBQs, the long, lazy days on

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Whose Business is It?

You’re here because you found out about me through the grapevine, maybe saw something on social media, maybe you’ve got my book. If you’ve been

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Leaving Las Vegas…

I’m sorry, darling, but this is just not working for me anymore. It’s not you, it’s me. Or, perhaps I should say, it’s not me,

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There Are Other Ways

For many people in recovery, there comes a time when it all becomes so… boring. Yup. The meetings, the retreats, the group sessions, the therapy,

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