Relinquishee, Adoptee, MPE
Author, Speaker.

Whose Business is It?

You’re here because you found out about me through the grapevine, maybe saw something on social media, maybe you’ve got my book. If you’ve been

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Leaving Las Vegas…

I’m sorry, darling, but this is just not working for me anymore. It’s not you, it’s me. Or, perhaps I should say, it’s not me,

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There Are Other Ways

For many people in recovery, there comes a time when it all becomes so… boring. Yup. The meetings, the retreats, the group sessions, the therapy,

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Who is Recovery For?

As an addictions specialist, one of the questions I often ask myself is: WHO is recovery for? It’s for myself as someone who has a

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Are They Better Than You?

There’s an adage in 12-step groups that says “principles before personalities,” and it’s a simple reminder that everyone in recovery should worry about the recovery

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Change is Almost Always Hard

According to two definitions, “dislocation” can mean “disturbance from a proper, original, or usual place or state” or “injury or disability caused when the normal

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The Pain of Renewal

Maybe it’s the promise of a warmer weather, my first foray to my happy place this spring (my lake retreat), or just a general feeling

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