
Making Amends in Sobriety
Whether you’re recovering with the help of a 12-step program or go about it some other way, there will be a time in your new

Whether you’re recovering with the help of a 12-step program or go about it some other way, there will be a time in your new

I met the B. family after the mother (Mary) reached out to me once she read my memoir, Parallel Universes . She emailed sharing that

I met 29-year-old Melanie at an adoption event that she attended with her adoptive parents. We met in a social setting, and I shared that

I was honored to have kicked off the 2023 Haymarket Center Spring Workshops with the presentation: Family of Origin Separation Trauma and Addiction – Care

One of the most challenging aspects of growing up with developmental trauma is having to unlearn certain beliefs—beliefs that might’ve served us at one point,

I once again had the opportunity to present to Dr. Samantha Wilson‘s class at the Medical College of Wisconsin titled Adoption and Foster Care: Considerations

My beautiful, sweet mother died last week at the age of 90 years old. She passed while I was on a plane on my way

I was relinquished at birth, then adopted into a new family at the age of one-week old. I entered this world without the safety net

ANNOUNCING: A NEW PARTNERSHIP, A NEW HOPE Click here to read an introduction I wrote to the Adoption Constellation. I have the honor of collaborating

Addiction and Adoption Constellation Support Group Meets every other Tuesday at 5:30 pm PST, 8:30 pm EST Register Here As you know from

I often go back to the topic of trust as someone who had spent the majority of his life unsure if it was safe to

I’ve had a lot of breakthroughs in my life, but it wasn’t until I started to share my story that I understood that my experiences

From a very young age, most people strive to belong to a group. Whether it’s their immediate family, peers, or people with similar interests, we

It’s hard to not make it sound as if it’s not my ego that needs stroking, but when I think about my work as an

For many of us the real new year starts in September. This is the time when kids and young adults go back to school, when

Recently, I experienced a profound personal loss. The details are not important as they are private, but this was the loss of the greatest caliber

“The butterfly effect is the idea that small, seemingly trivial events may ultimately result in something with much larger consequences – in other words, they

What every adoptee/ relinquishee wants you to know is that we are not all the same. We have all, however, gone through trauma, whether we
