Here Are 20 Success Traits You Can Use Today
Over at Dumb Little Man I’ve created a post about determining success. Check out 20 qualities for a successful life.
January 16, 2008
Create Your Own Paradigm Shifts By Dumping the Negative
How do you change the way you think? It’s easy – stop thinking negatively! Ok, so maybe it isn’t easy as all that, but for many of us we have way too many ways of thinking that always involve something negative. We just know that if we do something outside the box, we are going to fail miserably at it. You see what you are doing don’t you? You are using a negative paradigm to set yourself up for failure before you even attempted to do anything!
January 16, 2008
Too Many Choices and Alternatives
In today’s world, we’re faced with a perplexing amount of life choices, directions, options and alternatives. And the loyalty is simply not there anymore. Because of this relatively new, fend-for-yourself attitude, the only real structure or rules that exist in your life are whatever you lay down for yourself.
January 16, 2008
Looking for Happiness, Success, and Fulfillment? Try These Four Steps
There are four steps you can take, every day, to help bring fulfillment into your life, achieve happiness and help you attain success. Though it
January 15, 2008
Conflicting Desires: Knowing That We Have Enough vs. Always Wanting to Better Ourselves
From a very early age most of us are taught that we should always work towards bettering ourselves – through education, through our careers and through our family. For many people, the drive to succeed is part of who they are and there is no doubt about it, that trait can be very beneficial to them throughout their lives. Yet, at some point in our lives many of us seem to wander off the path of leading a successful, fulfilled life and fall into the trap of always wanting to do more, earn more, or get more. We lose track of those life goals we have set for ourselves and instead we get caught up in the mind trap of “the more I have, the better I am!”
January 15, 2008
If You Don’t Live for Today, You’ll Never Enjoy Tomorrow
Are you the type of person who is always looking towards the future because you believe that you can’t take much more of the present? The kind of person who always thinks that tomorrow will bring a relief from our problems and obstacles, so we just need to wait and they will all magically go away? Many people tend to live in the future (that is, if they aren’t living in the past!) and fail to realize the opportunities available to them in the present. They think that tomorrow will bring a wave of happiness – and that we can just hide from the problems in our lives today to make it until then.
January 14, 2008
Understanding the Role Humility Plays in Everyday Life
Do you ever wonder at one point you can consider life ‘finished’? At what point can you say you’ve truly done everything you’ve wanted? Check
January 11, 2008
Build a Legacy You Can Be Proud Of
Do you have a real desire for your “fifteen minutes of fame?” Most people would answer this question yes, without thinking about it. Of course we want fame.
But do you really want fame, or do you want a legacy? They’re not exactly the same thing.
January 11, 2008
Action or Inaction: Which Will You Regret More?
How many times have you heard someone saying, “I sure wish I would have…” or “If only I had taken the chance and…”. Our lives are full of decisions. And a decision we make every day is whether or not to do certain tasks. The question is which will you regret doing more – an action that you took, or an action that you didn’t take? For most us, we end up regretting the actions we didn’t take far more than we regret those that we did.
January 10, 2008
Do You Have to Love Your Job?
You don’t have to love your job to find it rewarding but you certainly need to be actively engaged in it. Read my post, you
January 9, 2008
See How Easily You Can Handle Change
You know, we all have change in our lives. Most of us detest change, dread change, feel change is a real problem to deal with. I’m talking here about major changes.
But if you take a look at the major changes in your life over the last five years, up to about six months ago, you’ll probably see that since you’ve moved away from those changes, you can see that they were really beneficial.
Difficult at the time? Sure. No one’s going to argue with you about that. Change can be tough.
But it’s important to keep change in perspective.
January 9, 2008
Now You Can Have Quality, Not Quantity
We’re living our lives the “right way” – upholding our civic duties, serving as the model employee, being the attentive husband or wife, family member, friend. And yet, we’re biting off more than we can chew – and what we end up with is quantity, not quality, in all of our undertakings.
January 9, 2008
Don’t Become a Boiled Frog
If you’ve heard the parable of the boiled frog you know that you can only boil a frog if you put it in cold water
January 8, 2008
Do You Make the Mistake of getting Hungry, Angry, Lonely, and/or Tired?
Ever have one of those days when you can’t get anything done, nothing works, and, to put it simply, everything you touch falls apart? I have had a few of those days myself, and I have noticed a pattern. At least one of these things is almost always true when I have a day, or even a period of several hours, where I’m not functioning well.
January 8, 2008
Building a Strong Financial Foundation
Working with financial planners and lifestyle coaches, one step at a time, will help you put together a complete lifestyle package to guide you through not only your financial future, but also your lifestyle – setting up goals and milestones to help you support your personal beliefs, culture preferences and values that define who you are.
January 8, 2008
Are You Lacking Anything in Your Life?
Do you always crave “more”? More action, more adventure, more challenge, and/or more stuff? Many of us do.
Isn’t there a balance between wanting more and knowing that we have everything we need.
YES, there is. Read about it in my post
January 7, 2008
A Better Life: Are You Willing To Do What It Takes To Achieve It?
We all dream of having a better life – finding a meaning in our life and pursuing our passions and goals. For some of us a better life means advancing our careers, for others it may be a path of personal discovery that leads to a better life. For others it could mean returning to school to get a degree so they can get the job they always wanted and provide for their families. A better life is achievable by anyone who wants to take the time and effort to do what it takes to attain it. A lot of people sit around talking about having a better life, but how many people are willing to put forth the effort required to actually achieve it?
January 7, 2008
Personal Development & Happiness Carnival #24
Here is the 24th issues of personal development & happiness carnival. I was asked to fill in as this week’s host. Here you go.
January 6, 2008
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