“I finally learned that you cannot help people unless they really need help, are willing to be helped, want you to help them and ask you to help them. Even then, you can only help them to help themselves.” ~ Vincent Collins
The Highest Form of Peace, the Adoption Game, and the Need to Be Understood
There is a line circulating as Stoic wisdom: “The highest form of peace is to have no desire to be understood, admired, pitied, or even
September 18, 2026
